Why a breakup is the best decision in a bitter relationship ?

Breakup

The meaning of breakup in my opinion is breaking of heart. And it is important to understand that love doesn’t hurt only expectation from other hurt us the most. Love is beautiful experience, which is exist in any form mother love, animal love, bother love. Breakup is what break your heart into pieces not that when you leave your partner by your own choice. Breakup hurt the most when you are in love with someone who cheated on you or anything else.

Love is neutral Feeling.

In my opinion Love is that where you don’t have any expectation from that person whom you love. Love is neutral . Like our parent love us where they don’t want anything from us. They only want our happiness and success in life. So, if there is love then there is no place of bitterness in relation

  

Breakup - Best decision of life

Breakup is the best decision in a bitter relation because if there is a love in between two people then there is no fight at all. If they really love each other then they do anything to save their love and understand each other. Bitterness comes only when no one wants to understand the feeling of other and stays on his/her point.  

If there are too many fights in the relationship and the couple can’t handle it so the best way is to give some space for some time if they really love each other then they realize the importance of each other.

As much as it might be hard to admit, sometimes people are better off apart than together. While the early days following a breakup are rarely easy, at some point the two people involved need to admit they did all they could do and realize that their breakup was the right choice. Relationships take a lot of work and require more than just being in love. Because of this, sometimes a breakup is the only cure.

Separation is hard, but insult is worse

As it is hard to separate from anyone but it is very important to separate when there is lots of misunderstanding in any relation.

It's normal to have lots of ups and downs, and feel many conflicting emotions, including anger, resentment, sadness, relief, fear, and confusion. It's important to identify and acknowledge these feelings.

This is hard to overcome from heart break but it is necessary to fight for self respect. If there is no respect in any relationship so there is no point to continue that relation.

If your partner lacks interest in issues that involves you and no longer tells you about his/her issues because he/she no longer loves you then his/her concern for you and the things that you care about no longer interest him/her that’s the only reason there relation breaks. If he/she not interested any more he/she doesn’t support your personal development and he/she doesn’t seek your support for his/her development. So, it is important to leave that person who can’t see your pain or emotion because there is no feeling for you.

 

Breakup Changes you as a New person

It's always better to let go of something that is draining your energy. Breakup changes you as a new person where you can do anything as you want. No worries of relation, no fight, no toxicity around only freedom which gives you positive vibes. Now you can focus in your life, dreams. A toxic relationship steals your joy and happiness. Breakup is best beause a relationship always define by the love and mutual concern between two person, but if one person is not involved in other person so it is good to be alone. Always remember if you feel bad in a relationship, then it's bad for you. What is the point of staying with someone if you feel negative and drained around him/her. 

Constant criticism in a toxic relationship can lower your self esteem. You can feel unworthy and undeserving. This is the sign to let go of that relationship.

A relationship take a lot of work and require more than just being in love. If you can’t make an effort than, sometimes a breakuo is the only cure.

Where the bitterness comes from 

In a relationship bitterness take place when there is lie, cheating, hiding things with partner. "If someone you are dating or involved in a long-term relationship with has betrayed you in a way that you cannot get past — cheating, lying, addiction — then it is time to end the relationship for your own emotional health. Remember, ending a relationship with someone is a personal decision and only you know what is healthy or unhealthy for you. Although each and every relationship requires compromise,

Conclusion

Although every relationship requires compromise, there's only so much compromise someone can give before realizing they're depleting themselves in the process. As the saying goes, "you shouldn't have to set yourself on fire to keep others warm.

Relationships aren't just about working together for the sake of the relationship, but working on each other individually for the sake of the relationship too.

Remember not all relation meant to be stand for rest of the life. /and that’s OK. You just want to get a point where you realise that, instead of feeling bad or crying over and over for the same person is worse.