Why adulting is important?

ADULTING -commonly defined as the practise of behaving in a mature way and holding responsibilities such as- a job, a mortgage/rent , a car rent etc ,basically its the process of growing up.

This is an issue where the society, mostly asia centered , doesn't give an importance and mostly tend to remain silent on this. In our present day, among Asian countries , adults don't tend to grown up the way they should due to faulty parenting and a typical society. As an adult, being 18 he/she often suffers from indecision, irresponsibility, dependency on others .When he/she is given a work or responsibility, the trail of fear and underconfidence usually prevails mostly in them. Specially in this qurantine, when we new adults were forced to remain at home, it has been seen that the level if insecurites and introvertness has increased a lot within us. Frustration,anxiety has been prevailing.This situation needs to be payed heed by everyone ,especially parents who also grew up being confined to the ethical rules of a society. With all other processes of parenting, it is also a part of responsibility of a parent to help their child understand themselve, give importance to their opinions and give him/her the required freedom . Instead of being overprotective , he /she must be taught to protect themselve and  holding responsibilities must be practised from puberty.It is also societies responsibility to help them grow instead of standing as a barrier.

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